Tuesday, May 28, 2013

A FREE Guide to Creating Your Own Subway Word Art - Just Like on Pinterest!!

You’ve seen it everywhere – from Pinterest to Facebook, from Crate and Barrel to the walls of your Best Friend’s house. SUBWAY WORD ART. It’s awesome, right? Creative. Fun. Chic. And I have a secret for you… it’s also super easy to create!

An Easy-Peezy Guide to Creating Your Own Subway Word Art - A Detailed Step-by-Step Guide for Creating Word Art Using Microsoft Publisher (**Includes instructions for downloading and installing special fonts!**)

I created this guide to help everyone out there whose creative juices won’t let them sit still – or pay money for something you KNOW you can create… you just need a quick tutorial. You know that you can create beautiful, chic wall art just like you see on Pinterest or in their favorite home décor stores. So here’s the detailed – yet simple – guide you’ve been looking for!

The guide usually costs $1.99 on my Etsy site - but use the link below to download for FREE! Sweet, right? Now go get creating!!     

CLICK HERE FOR FREE DOWNLOAD

You're welcome! : ) xoxo                   

 

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Modeling Inner Beauty

How do we teach our daughters about TRUE beauty, when they are bombarded over and over again by images, messages and impressions of FAUX beauty? They see us get ready each and every morning... Fix up our hair and slather on make-up to cover up our imperfections. Suck in our bellies as we look in the mirror. Read books and magazines designed to "improve" us - to fix us. We know that isn't the right message to send our precious baby girls. But how can you put the idea of "true beauty" - the beauty that comes from the inside, out - into words a child can understand?

So I came across a bible verse (on Pinterest, of course) and turned it into a sign that I'm not only going to hang in my daughter's room next to her mirror... but also next to my own mirror.


Now.. don't you just love yourself a little more than you did before reading it?
 

Friday, September 7, 2012

Equifax, You STINK!

Equifax won't listen to me. I've called. I've emailed. I've even attempted to Facebook you. No response. No help. So now, I'm airing your dirty laundry with 25,000 of my nearest and dearest readers. So, Equifax - CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW? Fix it. Make it right. DO YOUR JOBS!
 
Dear Equifax - I am HIGHLY disappointed in you as a company. You encourage people to "know your credit. manage your future." but obviously that is just marketing speak. My recent experience proves you are nothing but L.A.Z.Y! My credit score is in SIGNIFICANT jeopardy due to a mistake on YOUR END and you all couldn't care less. Nor are you interested in fixing it. When EVERYTHING is based on credit score - from employment to home mortgages - these types of errors are inexcusable.

On my free Equifax annual credit report I noticed two errors which I promptly disputed - an incorrect collection AND an incorrect name associated with my credit report (incorrect maiden name listed). I received a notice a few weeks later that the "dispute had been resolved”.  This is how you “resolved” it - 1. Instead of deleting the incorrect name on my file, you deleted MY CORRECT NAME! 2. You said the disputed collection was confirmed as mine (AGAIN, WRONG!).  

I called Equifax to discuss further and was told by the RIDICULOUSLY RUDE customer service representative that - 1. My name was still correct on the report and 2. They verified the collection using my SSN, so it must be me. She said I need to purchase a new credit report, and at that time I'll see my correct name listed. As for the collection situation, I would need to handle it with the collection agency in question. Then she tried to sell me a credit monitoring program.  

So, attempting to close the issue, I purchased a new Equifax credit report for $14.95 via MyFico.com - and lo-and-behold, THE WRONG NAME WAS STILL LISTED! In addition, after calling the collection agency to dispute the listing with them directly, they told me THERE WAS NO SSN ASSOCIATED WITH THIS COLLECTION, THEREFORE EQUIFAX COULD NOT HAVE VERIFIED MY SSN.  

So, in a nutshell, your "dispute" process is a joke - you obviously don’t take the time to verify ANYTHING – and your customer service representatives lie – or perhaps just didn’t feel it necessary to actually LOOK at my file and give me accurate information. Not a good business model, my friends.  

I have since called back your customer service line a second time, and again attempted to report the inaccuracies. The customer service agent was not only EXTREMELY rude, but said “we can’t add your correct maiden name back onto the file – only remove the inaccurate ones.” So my maiden name isn’t an important part of my credit report?? As for the inaccurate collections issue, he again stated I would need to work directly with the collection agency in question. Luckily, the collection agency was significantly more professional and responsive than Equifax, and is filing their own dispute. They actually listened to the fact that I NEVER EVEN USED the creditor (Comcast) in question, nor have I lived at the address listed. Believe it or not, there are a whole bunch of “Smiths” in Atlanta…. 

I’m disappointed in you Equifax. You’re in the business to empower people – to provide knowledge to consumers. Instead, you proved over the last month that you are LAZY. You didn’t take the time to properly vet my disputes, NOR did your customer service representatives take the time to listen. Shape up, please. Your customers deserve better.

Sunday, July 29, 2012

You Don't Really Know a Man Until You Have a Child with Him...

Last night I was reading a book I picked up on the clearance table in Barnes and Noble - Candace Bushnell's One Fifth Avenue. And I came across this quote: "You don't really know a man until you have a child with him. Then you see so much. Is he kind? Is he tolerant? Is he loving? Or is he immature and egotistical and selfish? When you have a child, it can go two ways with your husband: You love him even more or you lose all respect for him. And if you lose respect for him, there's no way to get it back..."

Holy crap, right?! How TRUE is that statement?

I'm proud to say my husband is one of the kindest, loving and tolerant men - no, make that PEOPLE in general (men & women) - that I've ever met. He is an amazing father who always puts us - his family - above all else. Do we argue? Yup. Do I get frustrated? Of course. Does he get frustrated with me? Heck, yes! : ) But I'm lucky to have a true partner.


And I think as women, we "get" the idea that being a parent - a good parent - is about truly putting someone else's needs above your own. It's ingrained in us over the 40 weeks that little peanut grows inside of us. The morning sickness. The sharp pains. The weight gain ; ) This baby - this precious gift - comes first. It's not about "me" anymore. It's about "us". Some husbands might be a little slower at grasping this concept. But, they better get it quickly or respect will be lost... and that is not good. It may never be restored. I think that some men don't realize the lasting effects that the decisions they make today regarding their family will have lasting repercussions tomorrow.

And that's why we should share this quote with all fathers-to-be... and probably new fathers in general. Lay it on the line. And hopefully any husbands/fathers who thought the time they put in early on doesn't matter... that changing diapers, giving kisses, making sacrifices are only for the wife/mother... get the picture. Fathers matter. Husbands matter. It takes a unit to raise a family.
I know it's trendy to say things like, "Put yourself at the top of your list," "Your relationship with your husband comes first," yada, yada, yada... I mean, didn't Seal and Heidi Klum preach this on Oprah, The Today Show, and every other TV show they could get on? They renewed their vows every single year, for goodness sake! And look how well their marriage turned out! Oh wait.. that's right... they are divorced : (  Ultimately - in my opinion - the FAMILY comes first. The relationship of the unit as a whole. It takes sacrifice after sacrifice to make it work. And a whole lot of love and understanding.